Change, we all go through it from time to time.
When we are asked to change in one form or another, it can be rather fearful!
How do we know it is time to change?
My thought is:
We need to change when we are not happy doing what we do for a job, day after day.
It is time to move on from a relationship when we go against “who we are” preserving the relationship. Abuse in any form (emotional, physical, mental), giving all your time/energy/attention to the one you are in a relationship with, living against your beliefs, feeling invisible, etc.
It is time to change when the apartment we live in is causing us too much stress due to loud neighbors.
It is time to change when we no longer are able to thoroughly take care of our house, we live in.
It is time to change when all we do is speak and think negatively.
It is time to change when we notice the people who are around us: Never answer our calls anymore, look glassed-eyed & sleepy when we speak to them, look uncomfortable around us, and/or complain of a stomach-ache or feeling sick every time we speak to them.
It is time to change when we feel full of fear.
It is time to change when we feel Less-than to other people.
It is time to change when we feel inadequate in any way to other people.
It is time to change when we define ourselves as a certain emotion, such as Depression. Example-My family has depression in it; thus, I go into depression. And so, this person defines themselves as a Depressed person needing to go on an Anti-depressive medicine the first sign of any grief.
It is time to change when the Universe takes away what we have worked hard for in the past years.
It is time to change when the Universe comes forward and shares to us, there is more to this world than meets the eye.
It is time to change when we do not feel seen or appreciated.
There are so many times we are asked to change in our lives, whether it be our perceptions, our beliefs, our actions, our emotions, or even our physical locality.
Change is good! Change helps us to get back on to our spiritual chosen paths. In life, it may not seem like we know what we are doing (consciously), but our Higher selves, Christs, God, Universe knows.
So, when we are asked to change, allow. Allow the experience, flow with it, and accept it.
If we do this, there will be pain. But if we do not do this, there will be pain and suffering.
Yep, it is hard at times, but it will eventually be way better for you and me. Accept and allow the change. After all, our Higher selves/Christs/God/ Universe knows exactly what we need.
By Cynthia Bergsbaken
July 19, 2021